Recklessly Thirty

The best advice I can ever give is from the major lessons I've learned in my 28, almost 29, years! I don't know everything about life, but I do know that the 10 things listed below have helped shape me into who I am today, and hopefully that means a better person. If you ever listen to a word I say, let it be this: 1.) Your parents, siblings, or any family for that matter... their problems, their pasts, their debts are not your own. Move forward with the freedom of not worrying about what holds them back. Don't let it hold you back. You are great. You just have to allow yourself to be. 2.) Go out. My God, just go out and have some fun will you? Go out, have a few drinks, or don't. Go out and dance like an idiot, sing terribly at karaoke, try something new, laugh at all of the extremely silly things you said between your friends. Hell, laugh at all the stupid things other people said to you and your friends. Stay up late and don't regret a second of it...

When did things change so drastically in the dating world? Why did they change? What's the matter with men and women today? We're dooming ourselves to living lives alone...  I can't say that women aren't to blame for much of this issue, but I can assure you that with my experience in the dating world, men are overflowing the cup of blame. I've talked to a few single friends lately, male and female, as well as taken friends. What I have come to know on my own baffles me. What may be worse is that I'm not that girl with horrible dating luck like I thought. My friends have it just as bad if not worse at times! I wear my heart on my sleeve. A major flaw, I understand, but I'm a hopeless romantic. I believe in love and I am that freak that loves love. I won't be saying it to just anyone but I think it's a beautiful thing that 2 people share. I can't be the only person out there with this personality type. Rejection has sadly become someth...